Thursday, February 16, 2012

What's in a Name?

It matters that we get to see B every month. That was the goal we set when N first announced her pregnancy, knowing that having our grandchild live in Chicago would be a challenge. But after 22 months and many miles by cars, trains and planes, we are making it work. He has been calling J "Papa" for awhile but only during our last visit did he "name" me when he clearly said "Ahma." This was after I slipped him a few m&ms and I believe what he said was "Ahma? Candy?" I am not above resorting to such trickery to win the affections of my grandson!

I have often been amused by my friends who discuss what they wish to be called in their new role of grandparent. Amused, because it seems we will be called what the child decides! B has a bigger task here because both of his grandpas are Jim, and so far they are both "Papa." I have noticed that B can actually say "grandma" but I find Ahma utterly charming and hope he sticks with it!